Understanding the Ketubah
The drawing up and signing of a Ketubah
is an ancient Jewish custom. Archeologists have discovered Ketubot that
date back to 500 B.C.E.
Originally, a Ketubah was a contract by which a man acquired
a wife. That does not sound very desirable in our modern way of thinking
because couples today choose each other. But in ancient times, women
had very few rights. They were thought of only as daughters or wives,
not as independent individuals. The Ketubah was a rather unusual contract
for it was meant to protect women. It gave status and protection to
women in the event of the husband's death or in the case of divorce.
The Ketubah described the type of property both the man and the woman
were bringing to the marriage and guaranteed the wife a certain amount
of money if her husband died before she did or if he divorced her.
The Ketubah was the woman's property, and if
it was lost or destroyed, the woman or her husband could not live together
until a new Ketubah was written.
In countries where Jewish communities flourished, the
custom developed of creating beautiful, original Ketubot with illustrations
designed especially for the bride and groom. In this way, an important
legal document often also became a work of art. This custom has gained
acceptance all around the world, and there are many people who earn
a living as Ketubah artists.
In ancient times, the text of each Ketubah was different,
but over time a "standard" text, written in Aramaic, was developed.
Today a traditional Ketubah text or a more
modern Jewish wedding document is almost always included as part of
a Jewish wedding. While many couples still use the standard Aramaic
text, it is now possible to find Ketubot with different texts in virtually
any language. Some couple seven write their own Ketubah text.
Source: The Book of Jewish Life